to look at mssgs. go to right hand top of page, orange box, drop down to view all notifications and you can look for your message.

Give the person you want to contact privately your email address............it will be blanked out to everyone except the person you want to contact privately and ask them to send you their email. You can not contact someone privately on this site.

TY I did post my email in the post ... I have no idea how to go back and look at it? I put it in the answer box like this so they will get it? TY for info!