We have not had sex for the last 4-5 years. He isn’t able to get much of an erection and just the trying wears him out so terrible. He would then feel bad telling me how sorry he was. I decided it wasn’t worth putting him through the disappointment. Since his disease has got so bad in the last 4 years he even avoids bugs. It’s just so sad. Lately after a shower he has to sit on sofa for 15 minutes before being able to converse. He has bouts of anger where he lashes out at me. I tell myself he is mad at the disease not me. But, it is very hurtful. .